I was visiting my friend Brendan during his stay at Spaulding Hospital . Wheelchairs are the common mode of transportation for residents, and Brendan is no exception. I was just in time for his rehab session. He fell from a porch last April when the railing gave way. An awkward landing left his spine fractured and his legs useless. Brendan is 22 years-old, mighty, and unstoppable.
His rehab session was full of struggle and fight. Lean an inch too far forward and he would topple without the core muscles to hold himself up. He would bend his head to one side in an attempt to fire trunk and hip muscles on that same side of his body. At times it seemed like Jedi training for Brendan to use muscles that stopped working months ago.
Brendan has a physical and mental toughness uncommon in someone with such a calm and quiet demeanor. This tragic fall showed me what a great man is made of. He has not only had to deal with this severe injury and change of lifestyle, he has had to deal with every complication, aggravation, and unforeseen bump in the road. That he has done it with such positive energy and grace seems impossible.
There have been many moments when friends and family have felt great sadness and loss over this injury. It never lasted long. It was Brendan that cheered us up. It was Brendan that inspired us all. The man is a Giant.
Now we are trying to do something nice for him. We are selling raffle tickets for a $10,000 prize. Tickets are $50 each. All donations are tax deductable. The drawing is on December 19th. We have already raised $80,000. We are $20,000 shy of our goal. All donations are accepted and encouraged. Every dollar that you donate will be matched dollar for dollar to help bring us closer to our goal!
There is a pledge that is centuries old. "The honor should not go alone to those who have fallen. Rather, all honor goes to those who fall and rise again."
(E-mail me at jzimmer@gentlegiant.com for more info. Huge thanks to those who have already donated.)